Monday, August 3, 2009

Anorexic Friend?

I think that a friend of mine is struggling with an eating disorder of some kind. She's always been a bit on the strange side, but she's usually a lot of fun to be around. Sometimes, though, she tends to darken and not really talk to anyone. This occurs mainly during times when others around her are eating food. Everyone suspects that she has anorexia, but she always tries to deny what's obvious. She's very skinny with rather large and bony joints. When we went out for lunch, all she had was a glass of pomegranate tea and told us that she had eaten a big breakfast and wasn't hungry. I'm worried about her health, but I don't want to butt in and act like a nosy control freak. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Merci beaucoup in advance!

Anorexic Friend?
I'd say don't hassle her about it unless she really looks sick. Eating disorders are diseases, she can't control herself and she probably feels bad enough as it is. Bugging her about her eating, or not eating, won't help her and she can only get better if she wants too.
Reply:First Ashley H ( pervious answerer) shut ya mouth this is serious u big fat lumpy four letter word!


Support her! she needs it that is the best thing you can do for her! Why dont you try talking to her parents privately and tell them not to mention your name ( by doing this she may fall out with you but it in her best interests). Anorexia i have it it is hard and i only way 5 stone extremely underweight i am finding it diffcult maself but lukily i have a good mate to support me this is a really horrible disease and all your mate must get of you is support and guidance the rest is up to her parents, and the doctor. But if something does happen to her or if she gets extremely ill, if you gave her support that is the best thing you can give her.


Most of all dont keep this to yourself! tell someone you will feel better and so will she


I wish you all the best for both you and her and i hope i have helped
Reply:get a funnel and force food into her in her sleep (i'm serious) just be careful you dont hurt her by pushing it down her pipes.



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